The roadmap

We're just getting started.

The quiz is step one. Our real mission is a full set of tools that help couples play in every season of marriage — and you can get in on the ground floor.

Become a founding couple

We'll be honest with you — Rec Your Marriage is young. We're building it in the open, one piece at a time, and we'd rather have you along for the build than surprise you at the finish line.

Here's what we're working toward: a series of couple workbooks — practical, playful, and built around recreational intimacy — for every stage of the journey.

In the works

The Rec Your Marriage workbooks

Four workbooks, four seasons of marriage. Each one turns "we should connect more" into something you can actually do together.

In development

Recreational Intimacy

The flagship. A guided workbook for rediscovering how to have fun together — off the screens and back in real life. Built around your play types.

In development

Pre-Marital

How to win the marriage before it even starts. A playful, honest workbook for engaged couples who want to build the right foundation from day one.

In development

The "Won" Year

Year one of marriage needs to be won, not just survived. A workbook for newlyweds navigating the most important — and trickiest — season.

In development

Couples Christian Devotion

A devotion designed for couples to grow spiritually together — connecting faith and marriage in a way that's warm, real, and doable.

Also in the lab

A Recreational Intimacy card deck 🃏

A fun little side project — a deck of play prompts for couples, with cards tuned to each of the 5 types. Still an idea on the workbench, but it makes us smile. Join the list and you'll be the first to know if it becomes real.

Founding couples

Get in early. Help shape it.

First access

You'll be first to get every workbook the moment it's ready — often before anyone else hears about it.

A real voice

We'll ask founding couples what to build, what to fix, and what's actually working in your marriage.

Weekly play

While you wait, you'll get simple weekly ideas to play together — so the marriage keeps moving now.

Haven't taken the quiz yet? That's the best first step — it's how everything else gets personalized to you.

Take the free quiz